Friday, January 1, 2010
Christmas in China
Being away from my family during the holidays wasn’t as hard as I thought it would be, because it never really felt like Christmas. I mean, there were Christmas decorations around Wuhan, and people talked about Christmas (it’s more of a shopping holiday in China than anything else…lots of things go on sale), but it never quite felt like Christmas. I’m ok with that though…after 21 amazing Christmas’s, I can handle one that’s a little different. Plus, in about 3 weeks I have a 5 week (paid) holiday! How cool is that? It’s for Chinese New Year. The first 2 weeks I am going to travel with my friend Tiffany, who is currently living in Beijing, and her friend from school. We’re going to do a week of Shanghai, Nanjing, and the surrounding areas. Then, we’re going to spend a week on the white sand beach of Boracay, Philippines, which I’m stoked about because I’ve been there and it’s amazing! Then, my dear mother will be flying in to Shanghai and we will travel for 3 weeks! We’re going to spend a couple days in Shanghai, then take a train to Wuhan and show her around my hometown. Next, we’ll take a train to the Southern province of Guangxi, where we will see some of the beautiful (and hopefully warmer) sights and explore rural villages (put my Chinese to the test). Then we are hoping to fly up to Xi’an, where we will see the famous Terracotta Warriors, and perhaps make our way to Beijing so she can get a look at that little wall thing before she leaves for New Zealand to see my sister. I am overly stoked about this holiday. The only problem is that, and anyone who’s worked in China will tell you this, Chinese people cannot plan ahead for the life of them. We have been pressing them to give us the dates of our holiday all semester, and we just got the date of finals this last week (3 weeks in advance). Now we’re trying to get them to tell us when we need to be back after the holiday, and they cannot tell us. You would think that as big of a school as they are, they would have the dates of the biggest holiday of the year set out before the school year starts. But they don’t think that way. And they don’t understand that we have to book flights and make plans. The other day I asked my co-teacher what she is doing for the holiday. She told me she hasn’t planned anything because it’s too far away to think about it. I planned the trip with my mom off of what I thought was going to be our starting and ending date of the break, and now it’s a little bit different but I’m just going to have to tell them that I already made these plans in absence of them giving me any information. That’s just kind of how to you have to do things here. I feel like I’ve built up enough repor with the school and with my co-teachers too that they will understand.
And speaking of my co-teachers, I’ve been wanting to tell you all about them. They are the Chinese women who co-teach my classes with me. I have 3 of them for 4 different classes, and they are all VERY different. We see each other every day, both in and out of class. The class I teach with them is “foreign teacher class”, which means I run the class. Then they teach their own class with the same kids as well, which they run. Working with someone from another culture and with limited English has been very challenging at times, but I also feel very blessed that I got put with them….most of time that is :) I sort of see my relationship with them like a marriage. I have one who I teach grade 1 with, and we’re like the married couple that lives in the same house but have completely different lives. We rarely talk…I just go in and do my thing; she translates when necessary and tries to keep the class under control. Then I say goodbye and leave. That’s about as far as our relationship goes. Then I have a co-teacher that I teach grade 4 with…we are the couple constantly in a power struggle. She always wants to do things her way, which wouldn’t be a problem except that I don’t agree with many of her teaching methods. For example, she will interrupt me in the middle of the lesson and tell the kids to do something in Chinese, so I can’t understand. She does this because she knows I would tell her I don’t want to have them do it if she asked me first. This leaves me in a very awkward position, because I’m standing in front of the class and have no idea what’s going on. I’ve been very upfront with her about these things and have had take the reigns in that class, and we’re doing better. And then I have a co-teacher who I teach a grade 1 class and a grade 4 class…and we have a very healthy marriage. She is a really good teacher and I trust her a lot. She gives me her suggestions (which I trust because she’s a good teacher with a lot of experience) but ultimately lets me teach my class and steps in when I need her. She’s very strict and keeps the class extremely tame, which helps me SO much! She always defends me when the students gripe about an assignment or something, and I trust that when I’m not there, she’s not doing something I wouldn’t like. I guess you could say she has my back. We also enjoy just chatting, and sometimes we’ll just chat away while the kids are working on an assignment. I’ve learned a lot from her, and I’m really going to miss her when I have to leave.
Fun Fact: I have yet to see a fortune cookie...
Saturday, December 5, 2009
Manners
I really can’t go 3 months in
Another area where manners are very apparent is at the table. I have to be perfectly blunt here…eating with Chinese people makes me loose my appetite at times. They chew with their mouths open while talking and chomping their food LOUDLY. Anytime there are bones or anything else in the meat they’re eating, they just spit it out on the table. Most of the time Chinese food is served family style. They don’t usually serve the food on their plates and then eat it though. Instead, they have a small bowl of rice that they hold in one hand, and they just reach around the table and eat off the serving plates with chop sticks. They don’t ask to pass dishes, or really use any table manners that we consider “polite.” When a group of Chinese people leave the table, it looks like it was hit by a tornado. It seems that, in
Chinese people are by far the pushiest, most impatient people I have ever encountered. Pushiness is just a part of their culture. If you need to get by someone, you don’t ask them to move, you just push past them. If you bump or shove someone, there’s no need to apologize because that person isn’t offended, it’s just normal thing. You can’t stand in a line anywhere without being pushed by the person behind you…that is on the rare and miraculous occasion that a line is actually formed. I’ve had to become a lot more aggressive than I’m used to being. If you’re not aggressive on a bus, you won’t get on (or off). If you’re not aggressive in line at the store, you’ll get cut in front of. One time I was buying a ticket for the subway at the automated ticket machine in
Now we come to the weirdest thing I’ve encountered of Chinese manners…potty training children in the streets. I mentioned a while back in my “fun facts” that diapers are rare here, but instead children wear pants with slits in the crotch and the mothers create a signal, usually a whistle, to instruct the child to go to the bathroom. Well as neat of an idea as this is for potty training, it does include having to see kids peeing (and doing other things) in public. Kids are held over garbage cans, street grates, or just the sidewalk when they have to go. And that’s just if they happen to be outside. One of my friends saw a child peeing over a fake plant in the mall not too long ago. Oh, and bus floors aren’t out of the question either, and there is that unfortunate occasion that you are riding on a bus and see the remains…not fun but again not something that seems bothers the Chinese.
And that brings me to my last point…nothing seems to bother or annoy the Chinese at all! I’m just continually amazed at how they seem to block annoying noises out and go on with their lives. I have so many examples of this I can’t name them all, but here are a few. Chinese people like to play music on their cell phone/iPods on the bus or in train stations. Many times they do this without headphones so everyone can hear it, and it’s all fuzzy and out of tune (aka really annoying). But people don’t care. Chinese form of advertising a sale in a store is to say the same thing over and over again on a megaphone (something like “oranges half off”). Sometimes they’ll just record it on the megaphone and set it on a stack of merchandise repeating itself. This could possibly be the most annoying thing I’ve ever encountered while shopping, but I’m the only one who seems to be bothered because everyone else just goes on shopping. My guess is that it has to do with the chaos and amount of people in
Doing a little bit of reading online, I found out that China is more than aware of it's reputation for having bad manners. Chinese people who travel outside of China are warned not to embarass China by practicing some of these behaviors when they are abroad. I was reading this article that had me laughing because it named so many of the things I just wrote in this blog, plus some more. Click here if you want to read it.
Apparently there have been "anti-spitting" and other such campaigns run in China since the 1950's. These intensified in Beijing before the Olympics when the whole world would be viewed in on the country. Here is a video of a TV commercial from the 1950's that I thought was cute:
So there we are, a few things I may never understand about this very different culture. I recently read a quote that said “When you travel, remember that a foreign country is not designed to make you comfortable. It is designed to make its own people comfortable.” And although I may get frustrated with is sometimes, it all adds up to the reason I wanted to come here: if it was the same as home it wouldn’t be a new experience.
A typical child's apparel
Friday, November 20, 2009
"It never snows in Wuhan!"
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Fall !!! ...or lack there of
Last Sunday afternoon I was walking around in my short sleeved t-shirt. Monday morning I woke up to frigid frigid cold! I had heard that
Last month, I realized how cheaply you could actually live in
I had an interesting conversation with one of my co-teachers the other day. We took a field trip to an orange orchard about an hour away, and I sat next to her on the bus. I was asking her about her husband, because I knew she got married last year. She told me that what they have isn’t true love, but she likes him and respects him. He’s even tempered and can take care of her. I was a bit taken back that should would just come out and say that. I asked her if it was her decision to marry him, or her parents’ decision. She told me that she first met him, and introduced him to her parents. They liked him, and told her they wanted her to marr
y him. He had the decision of saying yes or no, and he said yes. She said that she agreed to it because she trusts her parents’ judgment more than her own. She was afraid that if she were to choose her own husband, she would make the wrong decision. She also mentioned that looking for a mate is so tiring and this was easier. I’ve been trying to get someone to talk to me about Chinese marriage practices since I got here, so I was glad she was so open with me about this. She ended with saying that she thinks she made the right decision in marrying her husband, and she is very content and close to being truly happy. The rest of the field trip was really fun! My first graders had just learned the word "orange" so I got to listen all day to them say "whats this? It's an orangey." Here's a little video of them crowding me (as usual). If you can't understand what they're saying, it's "fanatastic" only they say it like "finetastic".
I had fun celebrating my first Chinese Halloween! Pip and I both work part time at a kindergarten in the area, and they invited us to their Halloween party. We got decked out, and were by far the most dressed up. We hung out with the kids and played games, but most of the time we spent having our pictures taken by parents. Foreigners dressed up in costumes are a real photo opp! Here are some pictures of the Halloween party.
With the holiday season approaching, I thought I should include my mailing address, just in case anyone wants to send a Christmas card (or cookies) this way :) Here it is:
No. 259 Jeifang Rd
Wuchang District
Wuhan
Hubei Province
P.R. China
430060
You can also check out my pictures in my photobucket. I need to update the pictures and hope to do that soon. Check 'em out! www.photobucket.com/ahnainwuhan
Fun Fact: China is the oldest civilization still in existence today. I don't know why I never knew this before, but that is so cool to think that I am living in the oldest surviving civilization in the world!
Saturday, October 24, 2009
Things I Miss the Most
Things I miss the most:
• A dryer
• Mexican food
• My car
• Morning radio shows
• Yoga classes at Lifetime Fitness
• Seeing houses
• Blue skies
• Church
• Real coffee
• A soft bed
• Baked goods
• Good wine
• Public restrooms with TP and soap
Things I like about China
• Public transportation
• Cheap massages
• Food/street snacks
• My work schedule
• Adorable Chinese kids
• Learning Chinese
• Traveling/Planning vacations
• Tea
• Meeting and defeating new challenges
• Market shopping
• Learning something new everyday
• Learning how to teach
As many of you know, this is not my first time living abroad. I was an exchange student in the Philippines my junior year of high school. That experience definitely gave leeway to this one, and helped prepare me for this A LOT. I sort of knew what to expect as far as some of the challenges I’d face when I came here because of that year. However, this experience is different than that one in a lot of ways. For one, I’m quite a bit older, more independent and more confident in myself. When I was in the Philippines, I would try so hard to fit in and be as “Filipino” as I could. And I was constantly disappointing myself because I could never BE Filipino, I’m American. But here, I understand that a lot better. I know that I look different, act different, and speak different than the Chinese do. And as much as I do want to learn their culture and their ways, I know that I am different and I’m not trying as hard to fit in. Another thing that’s different about this experience is that I’m not as engulfed in the culture as I was in the Philippines. In the Philippines I was living with a family, going to school, and surrounded constantly with the culture. Here, I’m a bit sheltered from it. I live and spend most of my time with foreign teachers. We sort of create our own little “home” culture within China. And as natural as this is, I am hoping to find new ways of experiencing Chinese culture and making Chinese friends. But I think the biggest reason that this year is different than my year in the Philippines is that I left my heart back in the U.S. this time. My boyfriend, Zach, is finishing up film school this year and was amazing enough to encourage me to follow my dream and do this. It hasn’t been easy in the least bit being away from him…in fact it’s been harder than I ever expected. I miss like crazy, and its tough having to experience all these new things alone when I want to share them with him so badly. Love is powerful and I think I’m just coming to realize that. But we are making it work and I just feel so blessed to have him...even an ocean away! I also miss my good friends from California terribly! I am lucky enough to have 3 of them working/studying in China this year, and we will all be meeting up in Hong Kong for Christmas. I feel like I’ll never have as close of friends as I did the last 4 years at Biola, and it’s hard to transition from that environment to this one. But again, I’m doing my best to make it work!
Sunday, October 18, 2009
All the Tea in China
I’ve picked up a couple of extra teaching jobs on the side to fill my time and make some extra cash. I find it so ironic that this summer in the states it was an absolute nightmare just trying to find a temp job even with a bachelors degree, and here I am literally being offered teachings jobs left and right just for being an English speaker. I’ve found that its easy to get a little greedy here, because we (foreigners) are such a rare commodity and we know that people are willing to pay just about anything to hire us. I took a job 1 day a week (40 mins of teaching a day) at a kindergarten, and it makes me almost $100 extra a month! I teach the youngest kindergarteners, and they are…get this…2 and 3 years old! The first day I walked in I couldn’t believe it, they were babies staring up at me and I was supposed to teach them how to speak English. They can barely speak Chinese! But boy are they adorable! The classes are 20 minutes each, and they can sit still for about 5 of those. They sort of just look up at me blankly and mimic the sounds I’m making. But sure enough, they are learning and remembering the words I’m teaching them! The learning center they go to is very nice and they each have their own crib or race-car bed that they take naps in, with a made that changes the sheets, etc. I enjoy the class a lot because its small, less than 10 kids, as opposed to my usual classes of 45 or more. I have another private job in the lurks for a friend of a friend’s child and her friends children, all around 3 as well. They start ‘em early here!

I began Chinese lessons last week. The Wuhan government is offering them free to foreign teachers for the first time this year. Score! They’re held at a learning center, and our teacher is really good. The first 2 classes we spent the time just practicing making sounds used in Mandarin words. It was actually really helpful and makes it easier to know how to pronounce a word I see written in pinyin (Chinese spelled out in letters instead of characters). The frustrating thing, though, is that no matter how efficient I become in spoken Mandarin, I’ll still never be able to read a menu, a sign, or anything else written in characters. But I just have to take it one step at a time, and it’s my goal to be able to learn as much spoken Mandarin as possible in the next 8 ½ months!
Fun Fact: Not only are most children in China only children, but only grandchildren as well, on BOTH sides! This was my co-teachers explanation of why my 1st graders get a little rambunctious in class...and who can blame them :)
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Beijing
I just returned from a week trip to
Train Ride:
Pip (one of the other girls) and I went a day before everyone else because our schedules permitted it. We left at 3pm on Wednesday afternoon and took an overnight train to
Day 1:
Pip and I arrived in
ere allowed to watch. It was still pretty amazing though! Pip and I spent the rest of the day exploring
Waiving the Chinese flag!
Day 2:
We moved from our first hostel to our second hostel, as the downtown area had opened up. Our second hostel was great! Right downtown
how fun hostel stays really are. You meet young travelers from all over the world! We met a girl from
Behai Park
Day 3:
The Great Wall day! We arranged a tour with our hostel to hike 12 kilometers of the Great Wall. We wer
e driven 3 hours out of the city to the Jinshanling part, and then hiked to Simatai. I chose this one because it’s the oldest part of the wall you can see, and I wanted a challenging hike in a non-touristy area. And boy did I get it! There were some parts that were so steep and uneven I didn’t think I could make it. An unfortunate part of the hike was that there were still crowds. Not a lot, but enough to have a hard time getting pictures without people in them. But there was one point about the middle of our hike when we had broken away from the crowd, and there was a cool breeze and I just though “wow, this is amazing!” I loved it. I felt like I was a part of ancient history being on the wall. By the end of the hike, I was exhausted!
Day 4:
I took a solo day to go see the Olympic stadium. It felt good to cut away from the group for a day, and show myself that I could do it on my own. The
Olympic Stadium
Day 5:
We went to a Tibetan Buddhist temple called the
temples in
Llama Temple
Day 6:
Allison and I meant to wake up early to try and beat the crowds at the 
The Summer Palace
Day 7:
Once again, we slept through our alarm. But this time we really didn’t care, because we were exhausted. Neither of us really cared much to see the
of clothes, shoes, bags, jewelry, anything you could possibly want at dirt cheap prices! I only had a little bit I could spend, so I haggled like crazy. This one lady screamed at me “nooo” when I told her the price I wanted to pay for a sweatshirt. I started to walk away and she grabbed my arm and pulled me back. I went up a bit higher, and she screamed again, so once again I walked away and she pulled me back again. This went on for a while, until she finally agreed bitterly. I loved it, it was so fun! Then we caught our train and slept soundly the whole way back to
Tianamen Square











